here's a surefire way to piss me off.

i'm a pretty amicable person, but at the end of the day, there're things that i don't like.

and here is one thing you can do if you want to really, really piss me off.

i'm not advocating that you do this, but just because i do not show my emotions (especially anger and rage) very often doesn't mean i don't have them.

please do not look me up only because you are bored (for any reason). this is something i find to be extremely distasteful, as it gives one the impression that you are "chosen" to "entertain" someone.

i'm ok if it happens once in awhile, though i do not recall myself looking a friend up to go out just because i'm bored. if i get an occasional message from a friend who wants to have coffee because there's nothing much to do, i'm ok with it.

so what does this mean? you can sort of repackage the "bored" word to something else to at least attempt to give the idea that you are not looking for me to satisfy your emotional state. a "i'm bored" message once every few months is fine, but not once every few days.

but, in any case, if i've identified you to be someone who has already used the "i'm bored" tactic to solicit attention, any future attempts to repackage it would be futile. this is because this post is free for all to see, and thus the ineffectiveness of the repackaging. you cannot hope to reverse your way out of this.

ask yourself if you like to be treated this way. please. spare a thought for others, if you do not wish to have any for yourself.

and if you've been identified as one such person, you can jolly well forget about enthusiastic responses or future meetups. i'm not that good at entertaining people who feel perpetually bored.

what a damn, insulting feeling this is. so bloody condescending and patronizing.